I've come to realize that there really is no in between with Croatians. With them it's either one extreme or the next. It's like this in a lot if aspects of their lives...
Now there is a difference between small talk and too much information. I like to make small talk with people, but I'm pretty aware of what not to talk about with people I just meet. Croatians are a little different. The moment that they know someone you know, well then you are now in the circle of trust and can be let in on their lives.
The other day I was taking a cab home. I like to make sure I mention that I live here and have Croatian roots. I have heard of a lot of tourists getting overcharged from cab drivers so I make it a point to tell them I am no tourist. Through my small talk of telling the cab driver where my family is from, he knew someone from that area that I knew of. I probably met that person once or twice but that was enough. In the ten minute cab drive, I found out about where his family was from, who married who, and even some of the problems they were having. It's a little weird but at the same time I can't help but be entertained. If there is one thing Croatians love, it is to gossip. As long as we have mutual friend or acquaintance in common, then it's fair game and we can have a candid conversation.
It happens quite a bit.... I will always remember the Croatian guy that I sat next to who told me all about his problems with gout and high blood pressure. I also got to hear about how some of his family members don't speak to each other because of some argument. He knew some of my extended family so he decided he and I were family and I was allowed to hear this stuff about his life.
It's just another experience that has all been apart of my little adventure. Croatians are some of the most entertaining people you might meet, mostly because you just never know what is going to come out of their mouth next.
And I will admit, I absolutely love hearing the gossip, even if I don't know who they are talking about. I guess I'm a true Croatian at heart!
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